observant

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being an introvert kind of person, i learnt a lot about life by observing others and it makes me think about the reason/s of a certain situations/behaviors. 

seeing a person get mad so easily, i cant help it but to think - what makes him/her that way? what happened in the past that makes the person so vulnerable that they want to let out the rage to an innocent person? i mean, things could have been different if you just use a 'kinder' approach. you know, 8 billions people in this world faced things differently in a day, so doing a favor by treating everyone right, wont cost you any cents. 

same thing goes to when reading someone's writings - fictional or not. i cant help, but to wonder - what did the writer faced in their life that makes them to come out with those words? how does it happened? i know, things would not just come easily without experience/s. even for fiction, something should had happen that leads their brain to think/create something out of it. all of those behind-the-scene situations are more interesting and way more special than the outcome, i tell you. 

diving in the behind-the-scene stories - helps to understand people better. i know it may sound like a very unnecessary-tedious-complex thing to comprehend, but i guarantee you, it worth the time. it prepares you to face more of them. you'll tolerate people better. and you would not feel so frustrated if something happened in the future - be it - related to someone's behavior or just situations that does not take on your side. 

this is somehow related to being a empathy kind of person. you'll feel connected to people in a certain way that it would teach you on how to experience life and tolerate things better.

with that being saaaid, i like this observant trait, so far. even though i sometimes think that i noticed too much, but i guess i can manage it better now. 

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