Ranting Addict

being an introvert kind of person, i learnt a lot about life by observing others and it makes me think about the reason/s of a certain situations/behaviors.  seeing a person get mad so easily, i cant help it but to think - what makes him/her that way? what happened in the past that makes the person so vulnerable that they want to let out the rage to an innocent person? i mean, things could have been different if you just use a 'kinder' approach. you know, 8 billions people in this world faced things differently in a day, so doing a favor by treating everyone right, wont cost you any cents.  same thing goes to when reading someone's writings - fictional or not. i cant help, but to wonder - what did the writer faced in their life that makes them to come out with those words? how does it happened? i know, things would not just come easily without experience/s. even for fiction, something should had happen that leads their brain to think/create something out of it. all of those...

we often being too focus on other's fault till we forget to sit down and reflect - for what we did in the past and the present time.  they said, people only listen to what they want to hear. and.. by that it means, you and i, are included. i believe that you only listen to what you want to hear, no matter how much i try to explain the real situation is. and you believe that - i only believe that you only listen to what you want to hear, even if i change my mind right after. a little complicated but, get it?  people are really just going to believe in what fits to their convenience - be it in line or against the belief. irony.  that's why it's important to always reflect ourselves. put aside the ego, and try to be in someone's shoes and re-evaluate things from their side, from every aspect that we can think of. may we not be among those that selfish and self-centered person. 

buat peringatan diri sendiri.  sumber:  Bayan Linnas. Elakkan Sifat Bertangguh  (Al-Tasweef) Sifat suka bertangguh ini seperti mana yang telah dikatakan oleh sebahagian salaf adalah sebahagian daripada tentera-tentera iblis [2]  bahkan al-Imam Ibn Qayyim al-Jauziyyah (wafat 751H) Rahimahullah di dalam kitabnya  Madarij al-Salikin  mengatakan bahawa sifat bertangguh dan juga angan-angan kosong itu adalah modal bagi kemuflisan [3] . Al-Imam Muhammad bin Ismail al-Bukhari (wafat 256H) Rahimahullah di dalam Sahihnya ada mengemukakan sebuah  athar  daripada Ibn Umar R.Anhuma yang mana menyebut: إِذَا أَمْسَيْتَ فَلاَ تَنْتَظِرِ الصَّبَاحَ، وَإِذَا أَصْبَحْتَ فَلاَ تَنْتَظِرِ الْمَسَاءَ، وَخُذْ مِنْ صِحَّتِكَ لِمَرَضِكَ، وَمِنْ حَيَاتِكَ لِمَوْتِكَ Maksudnya:   Jika kamu berada di waktu petang, jangan kamu tunggu sehingga waktu pagi. Jika kamu berada di waktu pagi, jangan kamu tunggu sehingga waktu petang. Ambillah dari waktu sihat kamu (bagi perse...

وَمَا الْحَيَاةُ الدُّنْيَا إِلَّا لَعِبٌ وَلَهْوٌ ۖ وَلَلدَّارُ الْآخِرَةُ خَيْرٌ لِّلَّذِينَ يَتَّقُونَ ۗ أَفَلَا تَعْقِلُونَ - 6:32 And the worldly life is not but amusement and diversion; but the home of the Hereafter is best for those who fear Allah, so will you not reason? كُلُّ نَفْسٍ ذَائِقَةُ الْمَوْتِ ۗ وَإِنَّمَا تُوَفَّوْنَ أُجُورَكُمْ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ ۖ فَمَن زُحْزِحَ عَنِ النَّارِ وَأُدْخِلَ الْجَنَّةَ فَقَدْ فَازَ ۗ وَمَا الْحَيَاةُ الدُّنْيَا إِلَّا مَتَاعُ الْغُرُورِ - 3:185 Every soul will taste death, and you will only be given your [full] compensation on the Day of Resurrection. So he who is drawn away from the Fire and admitted to Paradise has attained [his desire]. And what is the life of this world except the enjoyment of delusion.

hello. i was supposed to be studying right now, but i can't focus at the moment (or maybe i'm being lazy; or i don't feel like studying; or maybe i'm having the urge to spit this out right now). yes, take all the options because they are all true.  i actually just watched random YouTube videos just now while having my late dinner. and i came across with Hazeman Huzir's video - talking about a trending issue a few weeks ago. and that was about Fxnn Jxmal who's commenting about the rape culture. (long story short: she commented about how rape was actually started from those people that dressed or behave indecently on social media - and those people triggers those potential rapers to rape. #do refer to the original video to judge) i like how Haze commented about this issues, by stating this clearly: 'rogol itu jenayah. apa pun penyebabnya, takkan mengubah status jenayah tersebut. tidak perlu menuding jadi terhadap sesuatu perkara untuk mencari ...