life goals
what comes into your mind when talking about 'life goals'? some might say, 'to graduate with a first class degree at the age of 23', 'to be able to own a car within the first year of having a job', 'to own a house and get married at the age of 25' yada-yada the list goes on. from the life goals stated above, can you recognize the problems are? age. yeah of course, there's nothing wrong to set a goal in order to achieve certain things in your life, before you're reaching that certain age. but i think what's wrong is - the desperation that comes along with the aim. something happened during your study, which caused you to not being able to graduate on time - you get disappointed with your own expectations, and you decided to just give up. when in fact, more failures teach you a lot more to improve and to be better in the future. you get a decent job, but covid happens, and you get fired because the company need to cut off the budget. you ha...